Would you like to entrance your man? Cast a spell over him?
Let's talk about three ways to entrance him...
Whether you've just met a man for the first time, or you've been with him for months - or even years...
... how do you get him to notice you?
SEE you?
I mean, wake the heck up and smell what you're cooking!
Is that too much to ask?
Sometimes, guys are truly clueless.
But there are some things you can do to wake him up and get him to not only notice you -
He will also be starry-eyed ADORING you...
It's like waving a magic wand in front of his face and capturing his heart & soul.
The first thing you can do is...
Get Him To Notice You Tip 1: Play Space Invaders
No, not that crazy video game from the 80's...
I'm talking about waking him up by passing through his "personal" space.
There's this bubble that starts about 3 feet around us, and when someone passes through it, we notice them.
This gets immediate attention from men, who are actually biologically programmed to assess the "threat level" of anyone who passes this close to us.
Kind of like making sure there are no asteroids on a collision course... (Sorry, that's a different 80s video game.)
But it's true... men simply HAVE to notice you when you pass this close to them.
If it's your boyfriend, you play the space invaders game by brushing up against him, like a frisky cat.
Make sure he feels your softness and curves when you do this - against his back or arms.
Then you disengage and let him follow you.
It WORKS.
Get Him To Notice You Tip 2: "Oops, I did it again..."
There's nothing a guy likes than to be able to catch a glimpse of something sexual about a woman. Whether that's a flash of cleavage, a hint of the side of your leg...
...or even the fine hairs at the nape of your neck (did you know about that one?)
We know men are visual, and this plays directly into his attention programming.
It doesn't matter how long you've known him, either. From 10 minutes to 10 years, men simply can't resist the primal call.
So orchestrate a very subtle "flash."
Doesn't have to be too racy, just something that starts his imagination running.
Get Him To Notice You Tip 3: The Butcher Shop Stare
Sure, women hate it when men look at them like a piece of meat (well, most times.)
But the fact is that men crave this kind of raw sexual attention more than anything.
Women hold back on this kind of reveal for many reasons, not the least of which is appearing too "slutty..."
But the fact remains that a man feels like women stare at him only to calculate his take home salary.
They WANT to be wanted for the same kind of unrestrained wild desire that woman yearn for.
Just take a second to look him up from head to toe, and back up again. Take 2 seconds to do this, then smirk a little.
Not a mean smile, but one that says, "Mmm-hmm. Game on."
Trust me, you'll be lighting the fuse with him - so be sure you really want him.
Now, if you read these tips and thought, "Hey, these are great - but what if he's resisting me right now? He's actually a bit closed off and hard to reach."
Sometimes men pull away from you... it's a fact.
But HOW you handle it will make all the difference in whether he becomes a sad, heartbroken memory of 'what could have been...'
OR a passionate adoring man that you keep in your life FOREVER.
If you'd like to discover how to make him YOURS - for as long as you desire, you'll want to watch this video.
In it, I reveal the 3 magical (yet everyday) questions you MUST know to capture the man you desire.
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