Discover Dating Tips & Relationship Advice For Women:
Carlos Cavallo Dating and Relationship Guru
Relationships can seem difficult at times. Dating often feels very confusing and complicated. In reality, it's the people that are confusing and difficult. And truth is that it's just a simple skill. I'm going to show you simple dating and relationship advice for women you can use right now.
The number one problem of most relationships is simply this: Both the man and the woman were just a little bit too lazy when they were dating. Neither one really followed a smart plan to make sure the relationship would be a success after those first critical weeks.
I've been coaching men and women for nearly 20 years on dating and relationships. The one consistent problem has always been that neither gender was willing to step up and hold each other accountable for the relationship.
After all, no one wants to hear that it's going to take effort and work to make a relationship successful. Human beings are lazy by nature.
You can do it, and it doesn't have to be a struggle.
And there are some "magic bullets" you can use to radically increase your chances of relationship success and becoming a loving couple.
Here is some dating and relationship advice for women - something that any couple use right now:
It can be tempting to just coast in a relationship, but relationships require work. People get lazy when it comes to relationships.
If you think that you can just put things on autopilot, you’ll find out (too late) that you’ll grow distant and eventually you'll break up.
Sure, it might be a little work, but is there anything worth putting that effort into more than your love?
If you’re chasing men - trying to get them interested in you and approving of you - you’re probably scaring him away.
Men are hunters, by nature. He needs to have that satisfaction of pursuing and capturing your love.
Unfortunately, most women make themselves way too easy. Or - worse - they fall for the popular idea that it’s okay for women to play the traditional male role and approach guys and ask them out - or invite them to bed.
This is the worst thing you can do.
You need a man to show you interest. You want him to let you know you’re desirable!
Men are attracted to the women who know how to treat themselves right. These are the women that look good and feel good about themselves.
Guys are attracted to women who are more “girly girl” than “manly man” - for obvious reasons. It’s the women who know how to demonstrate their feminine value that can attract almost any man.
It can be really hard talking about intimacy with men, as you probably know.
The women who tend to lose their men are the ones who try to avoid talking about the “tough stuff.”
When you’ve got an emotional obstacle, you have to know what to say to men to open them up. If you talk to him like a girlfriend, you’ll lose him. You need to know what words to use with men and how to keep his attention - and his desire for you.
No, I’m not talking about the dinner bill. (Guys should pay for the dinner, by the way!)
When I say you should split it two ways, I’m talking about the EFFORT.
You need to split up the chores and the responsibilities 50/50 in your partnership. Otherwise, one person will grow complacent and lazy, and the other one will grow resentful.
Make sure you talk through your expectations in the relationship. If you don’t, you’re very likely to run into more misunderstandings, arguments, and conflict.
Most men feel like they are not heard within their relationships. They don’t believe that their partner really knows what’s going on in his head and his heart.
And most women would blame him for this - that he’s not talking about his feelings enough.
"Keep in mind that women listen to CONNECT, while men talk to solve problems."
The truth is that men talk to women that they trust and respect. Do you know what signs he’s looking for to trust you and respect you?
The relationships that fail are when the couple get into blame contests and trying to be the “winner” of the argument.
NEWS FLASH: Even if you think you “won” a relationship argument, you didn’t. Because the person who “lost” is now pushed away from you a bit. And it gets harder and harder for him to come back to you!
Avoid treating your man as an adversary. He’s your partner and co-pilot, and he wants to know you will work on the same team when you're a couple.
It's easy to start being too serious with your relationship. And when you become too serious, the relationship loses its fun - and he will start to grow more cold and distant.
That's another reason why you must keep your sense of humor with you at all times.
If you take your relationship too seriously - as if your life depends on it - your man will sense this and run away.
The first thing to go in any relationship is usually the good vibe between you and him. Men choose the woman they marry by watching how much fun he has with you.
Laugh with him and you’ll create a rock solid intimacy connection - and he’ll adore you forever!
It’s easy to forget how much the small stuff doesn’t really matter when you’re in a relationship, but most of the things we end up arguing over don’t really matter.
Instead of letting these small problems overwhelm you, keep them in perspective.
You deserve to be treated with respect by him at all times. And he deserves the same from you!
Respect in your relationship is vital for it to survive. Respect shows up in how you talk to each other, how you treat each other, and even how you think about each other.
You may not realize this but every guy in a relationship has a speed limit. This speed limit is how quickly he's willing to commit to you and your love.
But what most women don't realize is that they are probably already speeding.
To get a guy to really give his heart to you requires you to know exactly how fast you can go with him. Some guys can go quicker, some guys need slower.
Do you know how fast you can go?
If you’ve ever read some dating or relationship advice and thought: “Yeah, but what about HIM? Why doesn’t the guy have to change/learn/improve/etc. ?” You might be tempted to wonder why YOU have to do all the work, right?
The truth is, we ALL have our part. But as the saying goes, know when it’s wiser to help YOU first.
When you realize that YOU are the one that controls your actions - that gives you an incredible amount of power to get the man you desire.
If you wait around, complaining about how all guys won’t change for you, you’ll miss out on The One.
One of the fastest ways to fix your relationship - or even win back your ex - is to simply STOP making all the common mistakes with men.
Many women don’t know that there are some simple mistakes that can be avoided to save your relationship - or your marriage! It’s not your fault you made them, but now you can avoid the mistakes.
(And avoiding mistakes is easy! Use the form below to get your free ebook on the 7 Mistakes Women Make With Men)
Everyone does now and then!
But before you lose hope - take a breath and stay with me a second...
Relationships might seem difficult at first, but they're much less intimidating than you might think. If you want a successful relationship or marriage, you simply have to focus on it.
Here are a few more tips for women to help your dating and relationships…
This is a scary truth that you might not know about. A man's "window of opportunity" to fall in love is short.
This time limit on relationships is real, and it’s a problem that many women face.
Most women have a difficult time getting past 3 months in their relationships. There seems to be a time limit - a wall - they can’t make a love relationship to turn into commitment - or turn into marriage.
The reason for this is simply because most women do not really understand how men think - and how to keep him happy.
Because if your man is happy, he will do ANYTHING to make sure YOU are happy!
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Carlos Cavallo Dating and Relationship Guru